Wedding Pet Attendants vs. Asking a Friend: What’s the Difference?

Why Couples in St. Louis, St. Charles, and Franklin County Are Choosing Elegant Paws

When planning your wedding, it’s natural to turn to close friends and family for help—especially when it comes to involving your pet. After all, who knows your pup better than your best friend or cousin?

But when the big day arrives, many couples quickly realize that assigning a guest to pet duty can create unexpected challenges and stress. That’s where wedding pet attendants come in.

At Elegant Paws, we provide professional, seamless pet care so your furry family member can be part of your special day—without placing responsibility on your guests. Here’s what sets us apart and why more couples across St. Louis, St. Charles County, and Franklin County are hiring dedicated pet attendants for their weddings.

Your Guests Should Be Guests

Asking a Friend: When a guest is assigned to handle your pet, they often miss key parts of the celebration—like toasts, dinner, or dancing—while juggling potty breaks, water bowls, and photo ops.

With Elegant Paws: Your guests get to relax and enjoy the celebration. We take care of everything your pet needs, from arrival to departure, so no one misses a moment.

We Anticipate the Unexpected

Asking a Friend: Even the most well-meaning friend may not be prepared for wedding-day surprises—muddy paws, nervous barking, or unexpected accidents.

With Elegant Paws: Our team comes prepared with calming tools, cleaning supplies, backup leashes, treats, and experience. We’ve seen it all and know how to keep things calm, clean, and on schedule.

Professional Coordination with Your Vendor Team

Asking a Friend: It’s unlikely your friend will know how to coordinate with your photographer, planner, or officiant. They may feel overwhelmed or unsure of where to be and when.

With Elegant Paws: We seamlessly integrate with your vendor team to ensure your pet’s role is timed, choreographed, and photo-ready. From ceremony entrances to staged portraits, we support the flow of your day behind the scenes.

You’ll Get Better Photos (Without the Chaos)

Asking a Friend: Trying to wrangle your dog into position while smiling for the camera is harder than it looks—and can lead to frustration or rushed photos.

With Elegant Paws: We work with your photographer to keep your pet focused and well-positioned. We step in and out as needed so you get sweet, frame-worthy moments without distractions.

Peace of Mind for You—and Your Pet

Asking a Friend: Even if your pet adores your friend, weddings can be overwhelming. Crowds, music, travel—it’s a lot. And if your friend gets pulled away? Your pet’s care suffers.

With Elegant Paws: We’re trained to keep pets calm and comfortable in high-energy environments. We stay focused solely on your pet’s well-being, so you can focus on saying “I do.”

Why Couples in St. Louis Trust Elegant Paws

We proudly serve weddings throughout St. Louis, St. Charles County, and Franklin County, offering:

• À la carte services customized to your day

• Calm, experienced handlers (one per pet)

• Vendor coordination and timeline integration

• A stress-free experience for pets and people alike

Whether you want your pet in the ceremony, photos, or simply nearby for a snuggle before the first dance—we’re here to make it beautiful and seamless.

Ready to Hand Off Pet Duty—Beautifully?

Book Elegant Paws by August 1, 2025 to receive special discounted launch pricing. Let your guests enjoy the party. We’ll handle the paws.